When my husband and I made the decision that I would not be a full-time member of the workforce while raising our children, I looked him in the eye and said, "Our children may not be raised with a lot of money, but they will be raised with a lot of FUN!" This is especially true during the holidays. Over the years,we sought out free or nearly free events and opportunities for family holiday fun.
I did not fully realize the importance of these yearly activities until a few years ago when my then teenage sons began asking, "Mom we will be doing all of our regular holiday events, won't we?" My "mama heart" was filled with happiness as I realized that they actually
wanted to hang out with me and that these traditions were important to them!
There are a plethora of fun Yuletide options in our local area. Here are ten ideas for free or nearly free family holiday traditions. Some are particular to Central Illinois. But, you can take my ideas and "run with them" and seek out similar events in your area.
Local Businesses: Holiday Open Houses
This
activity actually begins before Thanksgiving. These open houses
generally start in late October and continue through the first week of December. We try to attend a few open houses at local businesses every
year. It's a wonderful thing to support local, small businesses. Featuring
hot apple cider or hot chocolate and gooey confections, businesses also
often throw in discounts of ten to twenty percent during the open house.
This definitely gets us the spirit of the season, as well as igniting our
creative gift-giving juices.
We have participated in gingerbread house making events through our local library and also created them from scratch at home. The houses in which the pieces were pre-formed and the icing prepared by someone who had a better grasp on how to make the cement-like liquid sugar concoction, turned out more sturdy than the ones we constructed at home. However, both experiences were a whole lot of fun! I highly recommend this family-team-building activity. Sometimes there is a small fee for these events. The highest we have seen it is about $5 per person making a house.
Serve a Meal at your Local Homeless Shelter
One Thanksgiving we arose bright and early in the morning and headed to the South Side Mission. We found ourselves in a room filled to overflowing with others who wished to make the holiday brighter for someone in need. We sang some carols, ate some cookies, and awaited our parcel of meals and delivery route. I will never forget the fact that we were the only people most of these mainly elderly folks would see all day. We took the time to step in and say "hello", pray with them, and wish them a blessed holiday season. We were back home in time to attend our own family festivities.
Central Illinois has a yearly Festival of Lights. After the annual parade, the floats are transported to a local park and set up on display. For a nominal fee ($10 per carload) you can drive slowly through this very large, dazzling display. It's definitely worth the ten spot!
We LOVE historic homes! Around Christmas, for about $10 a person you
can usually tour 4-6 historic homes in your city. But, we generally do
"one better". We volunteer to dress in costume and become a part of the
event. The historical society sponsoring the event generally has a
special evening for volunteers to tour the participating homes for
free. So, we get to see the homes AND be a part of the action.
Here
are some photos of our family taking part in a tour. The time period
being depicted was 1945, just after servicemen and women returned from
World War II.
Tree Trimming and House Decorating
I added this as a category because the annual house and tree trimming are definitely an "event" in the Ware house. We make homemade hot cocoa, gather in the livingroom for the official "unboxing" of all the Yuletide decor, and have an outrageously fun time trying to "out decorate" one another.
I think it's important to note that even things like getting the house ready for the holidays can become yet another holiday tradition, which fosters togetherness and an atmosphere of joy and abundance in your home. As an added bonus, the older the boys got, the more coffee Larry and I got to consume while "overseeing" the decorating. 😀
BONUS IDEA! Get a pickle ornament! These are inexpensive and great fun. The pickle ornament tradition originated in Germany. The pickle ornament was the last one hung on the tree. The first child to find the pickle ornament received a special gift. In our house, whoever finds the pickle first gets a large Hersey's candy bar. Since I very rarely buy sweets, this is, indeed, a special prize in the Ware house.
Santa Claus Parade
Central
Illinois features a yearly Christmas parade that boasts the moniker of
being the "longest running holiday parade in the country"! It's always
the day after Thanksgiving. So, bundle up and bring the kids! The
bands, floats, and frivolity are sure to get you excited about the
holiday season and provide an uplifting experience for the entire
family. Plus, your kids will go home with enough free candy to keep
them wired for weeks. As an added bonus, you can ask them nicely to
share of their bounty and you, too, will have some chocolate to sustain
you through the busy upcoming weeks of Yuletide preparations.
Municipal Tree Lighting Ceremonies
The Friday after Thanksgiving is not only Black Friday, it's also the evening on which many cities have their official holiday lighting ceremony. It's the same in our city. After the lighting of the trees and the singing of carols, about twenty downtown businesses open their doors to the public. Santa and Mrs. Claus are seated and taking down lists of toys from good girls and boys. Each business features a different kind of musical entertainment and lots of free hot drinks and calorie-laden goodies. You dress warmly and briskly make your way from one venue to the next. It's all free and we have done it since our boys were small. They look forward to it all year long.
Christmas Candlelight Walks
The local park district opens up both their nature center and botanical gardens for free candlelight walks on weekends in December each year. We try to attend both events. This was especially a favorite activity when our boys were younger. Little ones just seem to love seeing the twinkling lights among the trees.
Some neighborhoods really put on a great light show, too. For many years, a neighborhood in our town did their own lighted luminary display. The neighborhood association paid for the luminaries and each home lined the area in front of their home with them. For two weeks preceding Christmas, cars lined up to slowly drive through the neighborhood to view the path of lights. This is a great idea for those of you with little ones. A relaxing evening of "oohs and ahhhs."
Christmas Pageants and Christmas Concerts
Many schools, civic, and religious organizations offer free or nearly free concerts and plays throughout the holiday season. Many of these programs are very professionally performed and set the Spirit of the season free in our hearts.
That's our family's list of traditions. As you can see, you don't need to spend a lot of money to create meaningful memories for your family.
What did I miss? Do you have a yearly tradition that is just too good to not share? I'd love to hear about it. Leave your comments below and let's dialogue!
Do all to the glory of God,
Hope
